Father’s day is a special day – not that it is the only day that we should take time to be grateful for the fathers in our life, but it is a reminder of that exactly. I always enjoy mothers/fathers day because we have a family BBQ and have time to reminisce about childhood times we remember, our favorite memories, I always leave feeling very blessed for the people in my life.
Today at church we talked about how we have the best father – our Heavenly Father, who loves us unconditionally, and gives us strength, peace and everything in between. For this I am thankful. I am thankful that I am a chosen one, I am thankful that I have a relationship with Jesus. I am thankful that Phil, my amazing husband, loves Jesus and leads our home.
I am 100% thankful for my daddy! He is the best dad EVER, seriously! Ok, ok. I know that every girl is a little biased to her own dad, and I get that. BUT for me, he’s the best. One thing I’ve always loved, is that he’ll take time to always hang out with me (and my sister) individually. We have our own ‘things’ that are special to just the 2 of us. Those are the things that I treasure. My dad has always been there for me to talk to, cuddle with and to cry on whenever I’ve needed it and I am forever grateful. THANK-YOU dad for the time, love, sweat and tears you’ve put into my life to help me become the woman I am today. I LOVE YOU!
In my life I was blessed to not only have 2 wonderful grandfathers but to know them! Fathers day is a day when I miss them. I was 17 when they passed away, my Gido (my dad’s father) passed away the day before I started grade 12, and exactly 4 weeks later my Grandpa (mom’s dad) passed away too. It was a very sad time for me, I was very close with each of them, and didn’t think that they’d be gone so soon. It took a long time to get to the point of remember the men they were. I am so thankful that I had 17 years to get to know them, to have relationship with them, and to have them be a part of my life. They are 2 men that I still admire. I have found that lately I miss them a lot, more than usual. I miss visiting, their smiles, laughs, and our outings. I miss seeing them love my grandmas, I remember being a young child and always wanting ‘that’ one day, I saw them love their wives in a way that pure. I wanted that, and I have that. Phil does many things that my grandfathers did, and it makes me smile inside, its the little things that make me remember.
A new father in my life, is my father-in-law, Phil and I have been married 2 years now, and I feel that I have gained a wonderful new family. Warren, thank-you for the time that you’ve taken to get to know me, to visit with me, and our online chats. Thank-you for being a great father to Phil, you have raised up an amazing son, who is a wonderful husband, and I know that he gets many of those traits from you.
Phil, you are not a father yet, but one day, God willing, you will be. I see your interaction with youth and I am encouraged, I am blessed. I know that when we have children that you will love them, encourage them, and lead them. You will make an amazing father, and I am excited to see what God has in store for us in the years to come. I love you very much! xoxo.
Today has been a great day. I am very blessed. I hope that you had the chance to remember the men in your life, to cherish those moments you’ve shared with them.
Happy Father’s Day!!