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July 31st, 2008 | Posted by keltie in Day-to-day things... - (0 Comments)

Today I was walking to work, and there were a few puddles on the ground and when I looked at them, some had beautiful reflections of what was around them…. made me feel a little like reflecting today.

Recently I watched a movie — I’ve actually watched it twice now…. and if you haven’t watched it you must! P.S I love you. It is an amazing movie, very well done. But I wont lie it will make you cry! A good big cry! So be prepared, with kleenex and watch it on a day you are feeling someone emotionally strong cause well it hits all those ‘tear’ places.

I don’t want to give away the movie but it’s challenged me a lot about living. (I know that I talked a little about this in a past post too). Do you really need to have a big savings account to live? How about a big house? A new car? Are those really the things that start our life?? I don’t think so (but don’t get me wrong they are all awesome, and I too wouldn’t mind any of the above), I think that life isn’t about our possessions or our success. We need to live in the here and now and make a difference. We need to make friendships that last, tell those around us we care (we don’t number our number of days), do things now, not later!! We need to put presidence on things that happen once… and stop saying, maybe next year. I don’t mean things such as taking a trip to the Dominican… that could wait…. I mean take charge of your life and make a difference with your friends and family.

A while ago one of our elders spoke on “starting with the end in mind”, and he said we should live lifes that at our funeral people are being honest and not using ‘funeral talk’ — example: s/he was strongwilled = s/he was stubborn. But to be honest about what kind of life we led and what kind of person we were.

I’ve been pondering what kind of person I want to be at the end of my life…. I want to be someone who was welcoming and loving, who cared and listened, someone who was respected and trusted, someone who was not proud – willing to be wrong, I want to be rememebed of my life I lived for God, by my actions by the way I lived my life… not because of the words I spoke, a family person, God willing a wonderful mother. When I die, I want my life to celebrated!!

Now, this post is not to be depressing or anything — and probably seems like a bunch or rumble-gumble, and it may well be…. but it’s my thoughts…. and I’m learning right now, learning a lot about life!!! I truly love my life — I have an amazing husband who I love and cherish so much, wonderful parents who still teach me things everyday(maybe not everyday, but whenever we chat), a fabulous sister, who is encouraging and loving and suppports me no matter what, I am surrounded by friends young and old who I can turn to for anything and I am forever grateful…. and so many more people who have touched my life in different ways!

I am living life… Phil and I are living our life… it’s an amazing life that was created just for us!!!!!

Vroom, vroom….

July 29th, 2008 | Posted by keltie in Uncategorized - (1 Comments)

A few pictures of my 1st time on a bike — it was pretty fantastical!!! And I’ll definitely be doing it again….

Ready to go… helmet = Check

Me ready to go!

Andrew (the fearless driver) and me…

Me and the fearless driver!

Ready, set… GOOOOOOooooo…

Vroom, vroom!!!!

a lull you could say…

July 29th, 2008 | Posted by keltie in Uncategorized - (0 Comments)

I find it funny sometimes how the weather matches my moods… we’ve had such a sunny, bright and warm summer — and this week I’ve been feeling a little blue, and the weather changed a couple days following. Similar to the weather I feel, grey and cool, not too sure about what I want to do, which way to go. I am not exactly sure why I am in the place — I think I am finding my way again, something I never like doing. Change and I don’t exactly get a long at the best of times… and I just feel that Phil and I are entering another season of our life.

No don’t get me wrong, I love life and things are great! Just personally feeling a little ‘blah’ lately. Things are working themselves out again though (as always) and I am learning to press on and trust 100% that this plan is better than my plan. Learning is really the key word… always learning. :o )

Do you ever wonder if something you think is ‘small’ or ‘easy’ makes a huge difference in someone else’s life? Or makes there ‘okay’ day a great day? Makes someone feel a little less alone in a tough time?? Sometimes (probably more than I think) I will do something small, write a card, call and leave a message, send an email, or write on facebook… and although it’s to someone, its often for me, I love to do it, makes me feel good. But I’ve never stopped to think about how a few words can go a long way for a friend.

A dear friend of mine, her and her family moved to Nova Scotia last fall. It wasn’t the best year for her and she wanted to come home. I kept in touch, sending “I’m thinking of you” notes often. Not realizing the impact I truly had.

Today, Art and Ang were back visiting because they have been posted to Tofino, so are house hunting in Port Alberni! Woohoo, they’ll be close. But she shared that those little messages made a huge difference. That those little messages and few words helped her through her tough time. I realized that what is placed on my heart is not void — but makes a difference. It was encouraging to know that no matter the miles between a friendship can grow closer and closer!

Tonight we had 3 couples over for dinner… I feel full!! Full of yummy food (we had chicken, corn on the cob, salad, and baked potatoes — and I made my 1st ever Rhubarb crisp), full of great fellowship ( I just love visiting ), and full of friends.

I needed the encouragement today… and what at first was thought to be a fun evening, has given more new perspective and strength for me. Life is good.

I am blessed with such great people to be surrounded by. A loving husband, a great family and wonderful friends!!

We have had our 1st day of rain of the summer (since the end of June), and I am actually enjoying it!! I love the smell of ‘after rain’ … every thing smells fresh and clean! It’s so refreshing to wake up to the sound of pitter-patter on the roof-top. I enjoy that! But, in the winter time, when the rain never rests, and it’s complete downpour for weeks on end, well I get a little tired of it. It get’s to be a lot of wet, cold and grey days. I’ve learned in the past few years that, I need to really take advantage of the great weather in the summer, and to enjoy it, not complain about how hot it is! Go out and enjoy the weather rather than always searching for air conditioning (although sometimes that is neccessary too), play beach volleyball, spend time beach combing, make use of this blessing of great weather.

Now, when the winter comes, I think I have to change my perspective — such as, I need to be prepared…. last year Phil bought me rubber boots!!!! and I have a fancy umbrella, and i need to use those to stay dry — and of course I have cute ones so they are fashionable too! I need to reflect on the growth around me, and how when the rain comes plants thrive… things grow.

I’ve been challenged this year about how in my life I am always waiting…. “I can’t wait until summer” “I can’t wait until fall”, in other aspects, I couldn’t wait till we were engaged, married and now I often will say I can’t wait to start a family. But why am I not content with where I am at? Not even just content, why am I not thrilled of where my life is, THIS stage that I am in, THESE things that I am doing. My eye’s have been open that I am always waiting… and if I am always waiting, when am I really going to start living?

1/2 way done…

July 23rd, 2008 | Posted by keltie in Uncategorized - (0 Comments)

I was looking at my calander today and can hardly believe that summer is half way done. July is over next week, and August is as busy as ever and well I feel as though I just switched my calander and it’s time to do it again.

Life has been good, quite busy lately. Phil has been pushing out all sorts of deadlines for work which is keeping him on his toes. We’ve had company for the last 2 weeks (I love when people come to visit, but it’s been nice to have some down time too). Phil also has been busy with soccer too. I have been working lots and trying to be good at staying on top of the household needs.

Next month is busy(like I said), we will be in the valley for the beginning of the month, and then the last weekend, we’ll head to Penticton to visit my most favoritest sister Shannon!! and then to Salmon Arm for Phil’s Grandma, and Grandpa’s 50th anniversary!! Too fun!!!

Then we’ll get back for 2 weeks,a nd then its off to Ontario for the wedding of Rae and Chris! A busy and excited couple months!!

new phones, no phones….

July 10th, 2008 | Posted by keltie in Uncategorized - (0 Comments)

For the last year Phil and I have been talking about how we should just have 1 cell phone between the 2 of us, but neither of us were totally wanting to give up ‘their’ number. I finally decided I would indeed give mine up, but then learned that Phil did not want to share his phone…. so our solution a couples plan. I was very excited to get a new phone, and even better finally be on a plan with phil — no longer costs a fortune to talk to each other. But then going the otherway, I struggle with whether or not is is neccessary to have 2 cell phones, a house phone and of course interenet. I think it’s a lot of means of communication for just the 2 of us, but what would we give up. We live in an age of technology… everyone has the idea they ‘need’ it… but do we really?? I am grateful that we don’t have cable, I think it would take over too much time of our life (although Phil just told me we are getting 1 month FREE, after that we wont sign up, I’ve enjoyed not having it). There are pros and of course cons to all of this, and I ponder them often in my head. Kind of a random post, but something on my mind.

Today is a work day, its a beautiful day outside (thank goodness I work in a place that has windows!!) tonight I am meeting my mom for coffee to plan a family picnic, and then I think its time that Phil and I just have some quality time together!! It’s a good day!!

What an exciting time — weddings that is!! I am a big fan myself…. I am a sucker for the romance, the dress, the flowers, everything! I love to see peoples different idea’s of way’s to do things and seeing different styles that fit everyones personality! Rae and Chris got engaged a couple weeks ago and are planning the wedding for September!! Phil and I will fly out to Ontario for 2 weeks to get in some awesome visiting time with the fam-damily! which will be lots of fun!! Can’t wait! I thought I’d make a ticker to count down to Rae’s day — its always fun to know its getting closer!!!